Heeren Tanna
HI Friends,
just got a mail , i found it interesting a it has a very lovely message too…. so just read & comment how would u react if it happens to you…
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A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.
He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all.
It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.
QUESTIONS
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1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?
ANSWER :
The husband just said “I am with you Darling”
The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior.
The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.
Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child.
What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. “
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Take off all your envies, jealousies,unforgiv eness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you
think.
MORAL OF THE STORY
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out something.
us shaks say itna sa taluq hai hamein k wo pareyshan ho tu hamain neend nai aati ..
hiiii…its a very gud mes…it tell the kindness of human…
Reaction is actually a very subjective matter…….
It all depends on what a person is going thru at that particular time…
It is easy for people like us to say we would have reacted
in a certain way but being in reality in that position of the dad is different…
I think it is not right to say how we will react at that particular moment…..cuzz we r not in that position ourselves….We are only third party here…..looking at it from a different point of view…..
Even wise people react unexpectedly when faced with difficult situation…..
The husband’s reactions were spontaneous and not everyone can react like the way he did at that particular moment…
I think the husband’s reaction was right in saying
” I am with you darlin”
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Mistake is both.wife & husband.moral of story is to live thinkg good