31 Ways To Make a Girl Smile


1. Tell her she is BEAUTIFUL

2. Hold her hand at any moment even if its just for a second.


4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5. Wrestle with her 🙂

6. don’t go hang out with you ex when shes not with you, you might not relize how badly it hurts her.

7. If youre talking to another girl, when you’re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her….let her know she’s yours and they aren’t.

8. Write her notes or call her just to say “hi”

9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10. Play with her hair.

11. Pick her up (she loves it)

12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it

13. Make her laugh

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15. If she’s mad at you, kiss her.

16. If you care about her, then TELL HER(don’t be afraid to)

17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she’ll hug it every time she goes to sleep),
jewelry (she’ll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she’ll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with
his cologne!! and flowers or something occasionally.

18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you’re alone.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile.

20. Hang out with her on weekends

21.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)

22.Kiss her just for the hell of it

23. If your listening to music, let her listen too. =)

24. Remember her birthday and get her something,even if its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means ALL the world to her.

25. when she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don’t (it’ll make her happy.)

26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don’t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don’t necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.

27. Give her wat she wants

28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the

29.DONT hug her friends or your friends that are
girls cause she’ll feel left out.

30.hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time

31.If u care about her…SHOW her!(totally)

  1. this word “CARE” how does a guy care about his girl

  2. I like the lines from the movie “As good as it gets.”

    How do you write women so well?

    I think of a man and I remove reason and accountability!

    This list represents only one womans point of view(feelings).

    I hope that someone will show her how to use spell check, and to capitalize the first letter at the start of a sentence, and to remember to put a space after the line number before starting the sentence.

    Line 17, why does it say three things and then lists six?

    Line 20, Hang out with you on weekends? Not everyone has a Monday through Friday 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. job.

    All Women say they want a guy that’ll be truthful and honest with them and yet line 25 tells us to lie to them!

    Line 30, most guys should have a full time job and that would prevent them from hanging out with you all the time. Where do you think the money comes from that we spend on you?

    If you turned these rules around and tried to apply them to females, they wouldn’t follow any of them.

    Guys, come on, be the bad boy, don’t just act like the bad boy.

  3. tried all of them – and it worked. Unfortunately the bitch still went for the other guy:(

  4. I personally love all of these. I think it’s spot on, maybe just because it’s simple and with good timing they’re all pretty good. Even if someone’s not the jealous kind, I think it shows a great amount of consideraton on either boy/girlfriend’s part to be sure their significant other is comfortable with their level of familiarity with the opposite gender.

  5. well… very swt list.. but mind u all of it doesnt work now a day’s.. so

    my suggestion wud b ……to b “natural”…

  6. I like Heeren Tanna’s list better…..

  7. i agree with all of this.
    ah, so cute.
    another one, pay for her if she lets you.

  8. Totally agree with every item on this list.

    I’ve personally experienced #6. (Yeah, my wife is the jealous type.)

    Guys, lists like this are meant to be “guides” — as in use your common sense. If you interpret stuff like this literally, well, of course you’re going to get burned. There’s no magical formula to win someone’s heart or have a good relationship.

    There seems to be cultural differences. Love104, you are from India, right? Americans are more cynical. To us, everyone seems like “5th graders”. And I don’t mean that as an insult. That’s what makes love great. Isn’t it great when you’re around with someone and it makes you feel like a kid again?

  9. This is the biggest pile of wrong I have ever read. Basically, how to make a girl smile: Be who you are without having to follow bull**** ‘guidelines’ if who you are makes her smile, then she is right for you, otherwise move on. Simple as that.
    There are WAAAY too many guides on ‘how to get that girl’ and ‘how to get your gf back’ on the internet…I’ve followed them, I’ve been there…it ends in hurt… my lesson? Be who you are comfortable being, and if you find a girl with whom you have to change nothing about yourself…then you have found a wonderful girl and you should continue as you are.

  10. this list is named wrongly. It should be called “31 ways to make YOUR GIRLFRIEND smile” not just any girl. Me being single, I was hoping to get some pointers here, but nooooooo just stuff to improve one’s relationship.

  11. nr. 13 is kind of obvious ofcourse she will smile if you make her laugh

    • I laughed till death.had a reincarnation grew till this age and then replied u this……………….
      one of the hillarriioouuusssss statement in this world

  12. i loved that list and agree with every single item <3 I don't know if it fits for everyone, but for me it's perfect 🙂

  13. A lot of these are… A good way to get a guy dumped.

    3. If a duy did that i would probably flip him purely from reflexes
    5. Maybe, gently, if she initiates, otherwise it’s just gonna end in tears
    6. A lot of girls aren’t totally jealous, just tell them where you’re going and it would most likely be fine
    7. Bad advice in my opinion. Not everything should be focused on the girlfriend, imagine talking to a guy, then he promptly walks off and kisses his girlfriend, I would panic that he thought I was hitting on him or something. And again, not all girls are that jealous
    10. Not all girls /actually/ like this. I know I spend a lot of time doing my hair sometimes, and I hate it when people touch my hair (not meaning as in I’m vain, just makes it feel like I wasted my time :P)
    11. Again, depends on the girl
    12. If you cared that much about her you wouldn’t need a list to tell you to get upset about it
    15. One of my least favourite things on this list. For one thing, what if a guy is a bad kisser? I’ve known some guys like that and it would make me /more/ mad if they did that. Not to mention, if a girl is mad she probably needs space, if shes UPSET then a kiss isn’t such a bad idea, but not angry.
    17. Good in theory 😛 but why spray it with cologne? If the guy wears it, it would smell like him anyway, right? And don’t just GIVE her the clothes, it’s takes away all the fun, if she wants them she’ll eventually wear them anyway haha
    20. SOMETIMES. Some girls need a little personal space
    21. SOME girls love this! Personally I LOVE standing in rain, and as cliche as it is I think kissing in the rain would be romantic, but I know girls who HATE getting wet, standing in rain, or messing up their hair/makeup (haha). Some would preffer sitting infront of a warm fire inside while it rains outside 😛
    27. Not always. If you never say no to her when you start dating, how are you EVER going to say no to her?
    29. Again, not all girls get that jealous. I had a boyfriend with many female friends and I understood that, and didn’t care about him hugging/hanging out with other girls
    30. I repeat, personal space plzkthnx.

    Nice list, but some of things are way too specific, and only include a handful of girls. If you’re making an “instructional” list, you need to generalise things more.


    • Are you single, Dan? If you’re not, then you’re plain lucky. This list is absolutely spot-on from a girls’ perspective, and that’s who it’s about. Truly, so many guys have no idea what will make a girl smile, and I’m afraid you’re one of them……

  15. I think he one that says “Make her laugh” is funny because the list is entitled “31 Ways to make a Girl Smile”. If you make her laugh I guess she would be smiling too.

    Great list, though 🙂


  16. number 30 is complete bullshit, there is no way he should have to drop everything and visit her, sometimes it just cant be done, besides it will make him seem whipped around his friends for constantly bailing to spend time with her.

  17. LOL… i appreciate your research and effort but sorry to say this is very much bent towards the girls.
    Allow me to argue please…
    1. Agreed with that who didn’t like the lie.
    2. Ok…
    3. Good idea to get her hand printed on your cheek
    4. Thanks GOD you come up with something cost effective
    5. M sure you are a doctor and have your personal clinic…are you trin to play a win win game?
    6. And what if I found her with her ex and on asking why…and big fight…You Don’t Trust me?!
    7. Hug her and kiss her…don’t you think you are killing the space…
    8. Oh! Come on I usually do when I am in need of the person…
    9. Ok…Only if she didn’t tell her friend that I am her boy friend 
    10. This is a real cheap
    11. Agreed!
    12. …and what if she is ok with it?? 😮
    13. M I joker??
    14. Np!
    15. Ohk..so that people can easily guess who is the real mad
    I really don’t have a stamina to go till the end…please get yourself a life…relationship is not Maths or science that contain formulas…for GOD sake…

  18. just let him feel that u really think abt them and send the a msg per day!!!

  19. hi

    1. Always snuggle
    2. Kiss him passionately and with much passion Kiss
    3. Give him romantic presents
    4. Always say “I Love You” – those three words mean a lot
    5. Cuddle and give him big hugs
    6. Try cuddling on the sofa and watching romance movies together(really sweet!)
    7. Always share your joy with him
    8. Take pictures together and have fun!
    9. Share your secrets with him
    10. Always let him know you care
    11. Give him a good massage if you are good at that kind of thing! Wink
    12. If he is angry,you keep out of his way till he calms down!
    13. Always sing together with him
    14. Run your finger through his hair just above his ear to help him fall asleep Note : Not all guys like this! SOME DON’T MIND BECAUSE THEY LOVE BEING PAMPERED! Smiley
    15. Prepare candlelight/Romantic dinners and let him come home to it/just as surprise to show how romantic you can be! he would love it!trust me! Wink
    16. Always laugh at his jokes even if they are not funny…just pretend they are and laugh!otherwise you make him look stupid!and trust me,guys do not like that…one bit! Smiley
    17.Text and ring him up.it shows how much you care!

    The list goes on and on…

  20. nice post…..

    could you please also write few things that would make a guy smile if he really likes you??

    only the real things not imaginary ones…

    I totally agree with point no.26…..

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