The woman in your life…very well expressed…
By Heeren Tanna on Nov 25, 2008 in My Thoughts
HI Friends,
just saw a blog http://plmzaq21.wordpress.com/on my stats which i used to visit regularly when i started this blog . i came across a beautifull post (unfortunatly not all will like this).
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The woman in your life…very well expressed…
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these fact as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house – your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly – your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this……
Please appreciate “HERâ€
I hope you will do….
Plssssss comment on this post
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On Nov 25, 2008 at 14:03:47, Amarjeet Kaur said:
Hiii……
Not sure who actually posted this article…..
Hats off to you…..
It is a very good article…..
Hey guyzz…..
a little unstinted support..
a little sensitivity..
a little understanding..
a little love..
may go along way for us working women…..
Thank you…..
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On Nov 25, 2008 at 21:11:59, hiren4u said:
hi Amarjeet
yaar yeh maine post kiya hia heeren bhul gaye .
sahi hai yar mere blog par me hi active nahi rahunga to yahi hona hai
On Nov 26, 2008 at 02:01:06, khalid said:
Hi Heeren
A wonderfull post without a dought!
All my sympathies go to “that”
woman.
Yes i beleive that friendship,love,
marriage,is all about understanding.
Just putting yourself into the other
persons shoe,will make lots of
relationships last for ever!
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On Nov 26, 2008 at 05:10:04, Amarjeet Kaur said:
Hii Heeren…..
Sorry yaar………
Pta nei tha k you posted this……
It is really a very good article…….
I definetely appreciated it very much…….
Do keep posting…
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On Nov 29, 2008 at 14:48:42, ajay verma said:
hey….i dont know who u r!!!but wat hve u done!!!u know it is marvelous!!!wat to say abt it!!!
no1 is near to it!!!
i salute u!!!
On Dec 1, 2008 at 00:08:42, swathi said:
superb article if this article is being posted by a guy then its really appreciatable that a guy cn understand the problems of a girl in such a deeper way thanx to the person who posted this article bcoz atleast u made other people to think of “HER” once . Great job
On Dec 1, 2008 at 11:13:41, hiren4u said:
HI Swathi ,
yes we guys need to understand this but id like to say tht sometimes u guls need to tell that ur human too .
On Jan 3, 2009 at 01:41:38, Gaumi said:
hey
who ever u r i thank you for making me relize the feelings of my wife
for me u r a god who opened up my eyes
thanks a lot buddy…………………………………..
On Jan 3, 2009 at 15:44:04, hiren4u said:
dont make me god yaar … i hate god….its good that now u undestand ur wifes feelings but not just wife dude try to understand everyone whether a man or a women.
just be nice to others & they’ll also be nice to you . i posted this for someone hope he too feels the same about her wife
On Feb 1, 2009 at 12:15:56, shilpa said:
i really agree to what heeren tanna have said thro the woman in your life. i myself m a girl and i completely agree wid this.
On Feb 26, 2009 at 15:53:49, reeta said:
its truth of life…………..a girl life is worst if her partner doesnot support her….. but boys can’t understand their feelings just because they are boys not girls………
On Feb 28, 2009 at 22:52:17, Heena said:
hi Heeren,
It is an awsum article…
who ever u r.. I just wants say one thing that i m impressed and i also appreciate u 4 this article..
I pray ur aim 4 writing this will get a success..
On May 21, 2009 at 13:01:16, Heeren Tanna said:
NIce collection on this site.Aaj To Hum Maut Ki Dua Kar Ke Roye HainDobara Aaj Khuda Se Gila Kar Ke Roye HainKyon Na Likh Saka Tu Us Ko Taqdeer Mein MeriYeh Aik Khayal Soch Kar Phir Hum Roye Hain.